Do They Really Know Who They Are?

In a world that tells kids (and adults) that their worth is based on how they look, what they achieve, or how many likes they get… how do we root their identity in something unshakeable?

The answer: God’s Word.

As parents, carers, and leaders, it’s our privilege to guide children in discovering who they are through God’s eyes—not the world’s standards. But to do that well, we have to believe it for ourselves too.

Why It Matters (For Them and For You)

Children soak up messages constantly. If we don’t anchor them in truth, culture will shape their view of themselves—often with confusion, insecurity, and shame.

But when a child begins to understand:

• “I am loved because God says so.”
• “I am chosen, even when I don’t feel good enough.”
• “I have a purpose, even when I make mistakes.”

…it changes everything.

And guess what? Adults need this truth just as much.

3 Powerful Ways to Help Kids (and You) See with God’s Eyes

1. Speak Biblical Affirmations Regularly

Swap the world’s empty self-esteem statements with God’s truth.

✅ “I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” – Psalm 139:14
✅ “I am God’s masterpiece.” – Ephesians 2:10
✅ “I am chosen and dearly loved.” – Colossians 3:12

Make it a daily rhythm—at breakfast, bedtime, or school run.

📥 Try this: [Download My Free 30-Day Affirmation Tracker for Kids]

2. Tell the Stories that Matter Most

Bible stories aren’t just lessons—they’re identity-shapers.

Show them:

• Esther was brave, not because of herself, but because she trusted God.
• David was small, but God made him strong.
• Jesus loved the children and welcomed them near.

Retell the stories where God shows up and calls people by name.

3. Model It Yourself

Children believe what they see, not just what they hear.
When you treat yourself with grace, speak truth over your own life, and reject the lies of worthlessness—you give them permission to do the same.

Start with this:

“God doesn’t make mistakes. That includes me.”

Final Encouragement

It’s never too early—or too late—to speak truth over your children and yourself.

You are who God says you are. Not who the world says. Not even who your feelings say.
Let that be the voice that shapes your home.